about me
We’re all born with gifts but most were never taught how to use them. So we end up using them against ourselves (very subconscious).
For example:
Natural gift: Huge heart and a natural ability to support others
Mismanaged it becomes: people-pleasing and over-giving from an empty cup. Often leads to resentment.
Natural gift: Empath
Mismanaged: becomes helping everyone else because someone else’s discomfort feels more unbearable than your own
Natural gift: Great at solving problems
Mismanaged: Using your problem-solving skills internally to pick yourself apart and try to “fix what’s wrong with you.” This can also show up as trying to fix the other people in our lives instead of connecting and supporting them or setting and honoring our own boundaries.
Natural gift: The ability to GET SHIT DONE.
Mismanaged: overworking to escape problems in your personal life or to trying to gain a sense of worth or safety. Everything usually looks great on paper with this type but internally they feel like a fraud, an imposter, and they don’t feel as happy as they thought they would at this point so they keep chasing safety with bigger goals.
If you’re “hiking the trail of life” and using your gifts against yourself, you are going to experience a lot of friction, because you should. We want it to feel bad when we’re living out of alignment. That’s the signal to reasses, not weaponize your gifts against yourself.
So when you hit the dead end of your trail, when your life looks good on paper but you don’t feel any different inside, or you’re putting in the time and effort and trying really hard but can’t seem to gain any momentum, that’s how you know it’s time to recalibrate.
It’s time to learn how to take everything you naturally are and use it for you instead of against you.
Most people spend their lives beating themselves up for doing something wrong but in reality they just never learned how to lead themselves in a way actually serves them and fuels their growth.
Nobody taught you how to do that.
That’s what I do.
I help you empty your “junk drawer”, we’ll metaphorically toss out what’s no longer useful, reorganize the things that are, and discover gifts that you didn’t even know you had.
And when those boxes start getting checked?
That’s when the magic happens. And it’s pretty fucking fun!
Here to help,
Machele Galloway
I’m a self-leadership coach and founder of New Bitch Energy®. I have personally transformed my own life more times than I can count, and I’ve spent the last six years and over 6,000 hours helping other women learn how to lead themselves powerfully using their current personal and business struggles as the bootcamp for them to develop those skills. My neurodivergent AF brain and my life-long fixation on personal development has made me a MF ninja when it comes to spotting patterns and showing you the shortest path for tackling your current challenges. So many people waste a shit load of time and energy trying to solve the wrong problems and once you put your energy into solving the right problems, your life improves drastically and consistently. You can meet a version of yourself that you didn’t even know existed and I’d be honored to be part of that journey. You can book a consult HERE.