SO THE RELATIONSHIP YOU HAVE WITH YOURSELF FUCKING MATTERS.

Maybe somewhere along the way, you stopped trusting yourself.

You learned to question what you want.

Dismiss what you need.

Keep the peace.

Take care of everybody else.

Push yourself harder when you’re already struggling.

And then beat the shit out of yourself when none of that actually makes your life better.

Now you feel stuck.

Maybe you know what you want, but you can’t seem to make yourself do the shit required to get there.

Or maybe you don’t even know who you are or what you want anymore.

You just know you don’t want to keep living like this.

HI, I’M MACHELE.

I’m a Certified Life Coach with 6,000+ hours of coaching under my belt and I’m the founder of New Bitch Energy®.

I help women repair the relationship they have with themselves.

Because you can read every self-help book, make another well-thought out plan and understand exactly why you do what you do…

…but if you keep abandoning yourself when life gets uncomfortable, you’re going to keep ending up in the same place.

I want to help you become your own best friend.

Not in a fluffy, stare-in-the-mirror-and-tell-yourself-you’re-a-bad-bitch kind of way.

I mean becoming someone who listens when something doesn’t feel right.

Someone who takes her own needs seriously (even when…)

Someone who can make a mistake without beating herself up.

Someone who knows how to check in with herself when fear, shame or overwhelm takes over.

That’s what having your own back looks like.

MOST OF THE WOMEN I WORK WITH DON’T HAVE AN INFORMATION PROBLEM.

You probably already know a lot of shit.

You may even be painfully self-aware.

But knowing why you people-please doesn’t necessarily help you say no.

Knowing you’re overthinking doesn’t make your brain shut the fuck up.

Knowing what you should do doesn’t mean you can make yourself do it.

And knowing you need to put yourself first doesn’t make the guilt disappear when you finally try.

The problem isn’t that you haven’t learned enough.

The problem is what happens in your relationship with yourself when the discomfort begins.

Do you listen to yourself or immediately start arguing with what you feel?

Do you get curious or call yourself lazy, dramatic or ridiculous?

Do you have your own back or decide everyone else’s comfort matters more?

That moment is where the magic happens and it’s where we’ll do our work.

I’M REALLY FUCKING GOOD AT FINDING THE PATTERN UNDERNEATH THE PROBLEM.

You might tell me:

“I keep saying yes because I know they’ll be disappointed if I say no.”

And I might ask:

“Why are you trying to prevent their possible disappointment by guaranteeing your own?”

You might tell me:

“I know what I need to do. I just can’t make myself do it.”

And instead of handing you another planner, we’ll look at what happens inside you when it’s time to begin.

What are you afraid will happen?

What are you requiring yourself to know, feel or do perfectly first?

What would make the next move less fucking heavy?

That’s how I coach.

You bring me the thing that keeps happening. We slow it down, find the pattern and figure out what having your own back could look like now.

Not when you’re perfectly healed.

Not when you finally feel completely confident.

Now.

YOU DON’T NEED TO BECOME A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT PERSON.

You need to build a different relationship with the person you already are.

One where you can tell yourself the truth.

One where your needs matter.

One where your desires aren’t treated like irresponsible little inconveniences.

One where you can hold yourself accountable without attacking yourself.

One where a hard day doesn’t become a six-month disappearance from your own life.

You won’t do that perfectly.

That isn’t the point.

The point is learning how to come back.

THE COMEBACK IS THE REP.

LET’S FIND OUT WHAT’S ACTUALLY KEEPING YOU STUCK.

A Get Unstuck Call is a free, 45-minute coaching session with me on Zoom.

You don’t need to know exactly what your problem is before you book. You don’t need to organize your entire life story or explain everything perfectly.

Just bring me the thing you keep thinking about, avoiding or trying to fix.

During the call, we’ll look at what feels hardest right now, the pattern that may be keeping you stuck, what you actually need or want and your next useful step.

You’ll leave with a clearer understanding of what’s happening and somewhere concrete to begin.

If I believe I can help you beyond that call—and you want to hear what working together could look like—I’ll tell you.

But you’re not booking a 45-minute hostage situation where you have to invent reasons you can’t buy something while I keep offering another fucking payment plan.

It’s a real conversation.

Let’s find the friction and see what it’s trying to show you.

You can find out by booking your Get Unstuck Call, HERE.