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Mindset is powerful.

It’s also one of the easiest ways to accidentally gaslight yourself.

Because if you’ve learned how to “manage your mind,” you’ve probably had this moment: 

Wait…
Am I supposed to clean up my thinking here?
Or is something in my life actually not working?
And that’s where things get tricky.

Because it’s not always obvious.

When I was going through one of the hardest seasons of my life (triple grief, 10/10 would not recommend), I had to figure this out in real time.

So I made a deal with myself:

A shitty day has to earn its spot on my calendar.

Meaning…

I look at the math. (Even when I really don't want to)
I look at what I’m spiraling about. (Even when I'm afraid that will make it worse)
And I get curious instead of immediately reacting. (Even when the urge is loud)

Not always easy.

But it gives me an anchor to lean into when friction is high. 

Because here’s what I see happen all the time:

Women go out into the world doing all the things and when they meet friction, it's so easy to assume:

“Something has gone wrong.”

And then…

We assume it must be us.

We overanalyze.
We people-please.
We overthink.
We overlearn.
We over work. 
We try to fix everything.
We override ourselves.

And before we know it, we’re making decisions from fear (although in the moment it doesn’t feel like fear, it feels like truth)
Which just reinforces the belief that something is wrong.

It’s like letting a toddler drive the car while you’re in the backseat.
It’s gonna get messy. Fast. 😂

Self-leadership isn’t just mindset,

It’s also:
→ knowing when to clean up your thinking
→ knowing when something actually needs to change
→ knowing how to feel what you’re feeling without abandoning yourself

And most people have never been taught how to tell the difference.
That’s exactly what we do in my consults. 

We hop on Zoom, and I walk you through a simple and interesting AF process.

You’ll uncover:

→ where you’re unknowingly letting the “toddler” drive
→ why that pattern feels so strong for you
→ what’s actually within your control (and what’s not)
→ and what it would look like to lead yourself differently

Even if you decide to take a DIY approach afterward, you’ll leave with a ton of clarity.

At a minimum, you’ll be able to clearly see:

🎯 Where you’ve got holes in your boat…
🎯 And what it would take to patch them
This is where I usually hear “Ohhhh shit, I never even thought about that!”)

If that sounds helpful, you can book a consult here:

→ [Book your clarity call here]

You don’t need to control everything.
But you do need to know when your brain is trying to solve the wrong problem so you can stop voluntarily suffering.

And that’s a skill you can learn.

And don’t worry, this is not a high-pressure sales call, that is NOT my jam at all.

Best,
Machele
Founder, LifeLeap Coaching and New Bitch Energy®

Feel free to drop me an email if you have any questions about the process! I can be reached at macheleg@lifeleapcoaching.com